“(24/7) once you sign on to be a mother, that's the only shift they offer.” - Jodi Picoult
I hope everyone had a lovely Mother's Day yesterday. Mine was one of the best yet!
I came across the quote above and instantly loved it. For one, I love the author who said it (the kids got me her newest books this weekend) and two, because of all of the mom bashing from both sides of the working/SAHM spectrum. I think it is so ridiculous the argument/judgment that happens. I have been on both sides of it and do not think one is better than the other. Each family is different. I loved working, because it fulfilled a part of me that is at my core, and it also provided my kids time to learn (at an early age) out in the world. I was mentally tired from my work day, but really focused and enjoyed every minute the kids and I had together. My house suffered, but it can when I am at home now too. The difference being while staying at home you are "living" in your house, which makes a constant mess. Plus, when kids are with you during the day, it is hard to clean. There are a lot of other things to do as well. Being at home, I am just as busy as I was while working. I am way more physically tired now. The kids energy is crazy! I think having the kids in daycare the first few years, really helped them with not being shy and handling other people correcting them. I work very hard to keep that experience up for Meli. At first, I could see her getting too dependent on mommy doing everything. I think both experiences have been great. I am thankful for having this time before Meli starts school though. Anyways, the point being that no matter if someone is a working mommy or a stay-at-home mommy - the job is 24/7. Even if you are working, you are still always a mom first. That does not change.
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| Making a wish - one of my favorite things |
Sorry, back to our day. I woke up to the kids and daddy cleaning and getting breakfast going. Score! So nice to see. I was also blessed with two chipper and happy kids. They had a late night, so I was ready for my sensitive boy and grumpy girl. Their good moods lasted most of the day, which was a miracle. They both really need their sleep. Will treated me to a fancy coffee and then we headed out for our hike. The place was BEAUTIFUL! It was a very nice, pretty, and peaceful hike. Not too crowded with other hikers and the kids lasted longer than usual. We just explored and enjoyed our family time. We each got to take a turn picking a path to take (I was a little apprehensive about getting lost, but it all worked out).
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| Sibling love |
We saw some interesting flowers, berries, bugs, slugs, etc. Colin wants to be a scientist and just loves creatures, plants etc. I can also see him becoming a vegetarian. He is very concerned about people killing animals. Momma is so proud! I will have to talk about some of those moments in another post.
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| A slug we found |
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| It was so secluded and peaceful |
This hike was exactly what my soul needed. It was so serene. Just perfect after our super busy week.
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| our silly family |
The kids also bought me some flowers that we planted as a family. I am wanting a collage of colorful ground cover. I am very excited about it!
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| So many outfit changes in one day |
Becoming a mom changed my life in an instant. All of my apprehensions/concerns during the pregnancy with Colin just evaporated when he was placed in my arms... and I knew this was what was meant to be. I never thought too much about having kids when I was younger. I just assumed it would happen but had no daydreams/fantasies regarding it. I am so glad how God knows what is needed for us and provides us the opportunities that can lead us to our purpose. Our best selves. I am so grateful for two spectacular kids and an amazing partner who makes it that much more enjoyable!
Happy Mother's Day to anyone who bears that title physically or spiritually.
"The days are long, but the years are short. Enjoy every moment." - Author Unknown
Loves, Hugs & Kisses,
The B Family
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